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and that she'd like to know how I felt about it becoming a “thing.”Naturally, I told her that what really bothered me was not that he was my ex, but that the fact that he was emotionally abusive to me didn't stop her from wanting to date him. You’re over him, there is no love lost and if your friend wanted to date him..would be no big deal. You have a wonderful boyfriend now you loves you, and is kind to you.

Focus on that and all the other wonderful, fulfilling aspects of your life. She’s the one who did this to your friendship and you MUST put yourself FIRST.

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I like to think that each person I’ve dated has led me on the path towards my “one true love," which is of course a positive spin on the reality that most of these dummies had no clue how to treat a girlfriend, and possessed the fabulous talent of continuously letting me down.

Starting with my very first camp boyfriend who held my hand and almost kissed me beside the lake but got too scared so he dumped me instead, to the financial analyst who took me to fancy dinners but took longer to blow dry and gel his hair than I did, these men have simultaneously made me lose my mind while teaching me how to possess a balanced, adult loving relationship.

It’s no fun to become their mothers, constantly nagging them daily about what they’re doing to figure out their career. You can’t make them into the strong and motivated man that you want them to be, they have to figure it out themselves. When things get serious, sometimes his “laissez faire” is more stressful than chill.

Back in high school, there was nothing better than a tall handsome cool guy; I simply could not get enough!

Each and every one I hold near and dear to my heart, because they have shown me what I need in my life companion, and what I definitely do not want to deal with for the rest of my life.

Here are some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way: Don’t be fooled by their charm and nonchalant attitudes, men who insist they are "chill" and "laid-back" can be tough nuts to crack.

I get it, the whole sweet and simple way of life can be enticing—but it’s not realistic.

Life is not all flowers and sunshine, and when the going gets tough, these guys often freeze, deer in the headlights style.

The balladeer has gone boo-hoo for his Hollywood honey.

Sure, our own Erin and conventional wisdom say that in life you only get one chance. However, there is good advice, not to mention learning from your mistakes.

I was devastated, especially because she knew I still had feelings for him.

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