Dating mistakes women often repeat

Let’s get clear on what a dating and relationship hiatus is: It’s basically putting your romantic activities on pause so that you can take time to not only break a pattern but to also get to know you, so that when you do re-open your romantic doors, that you are coming from a healthier place.

It should be a positive choice to take time out, not the equivalent of being put on the naughty step, because if you’re effectively sulking, stropping, and feeling hard done by, mindset affects actions so you’re not going to be behind your decision as you’ll be undermining it instead.

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If your man has lost interest in you, you may feel heartbroken over the break up.

I’m here to tell you today: It doesn’t have to be this way.

His manners, his shirt, his smile, the way he talks about his kids.

If he walks away from the date having shared too much or hasn’t learned about you, then there won't be a second date.

Baggage bonding is when an early date shifts into deep conversation about some baggage you have in common.

You start comparing your horrific ex-spouses or your crazy awful dates.

I regularly come across people who recognise that they’ve either been in similar types of relationship with same type of person, different package, or that regardless of who they’ve been involved with, they’ve had a pattern of seeing of seeing themselves as ‘less than’, people-pleasing, and accepting crumbs while having little to no boundaries.

Each will express their frustrations and have a genuine desire to not go through the same pain again, and yet when I suggest that they take a temporary hiatus from dating and relationships, it’s crickets.

Women get into bad relationships over and over because they don’t learn from their mistakes.

Hacking into email or phones looking for suspicious messages and then yelling at him for the "k thnx bye" text he sent to his female co-worker two months ago.

The majority of these dating mistakes are avoidable if only you are a bit more informed or knowledgeable enough.

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