Dating 2 guys at

The situation feels hopeless until, suddenly, you're on a great first date, and that turns into a second. But you keep your options open; you commit to a date with someone else … This hardly seems fair to you — and to the two men you're seeing.

You've spent so much time being a single girl — only to be dealt two different aces at once.

To put it in less sitcom-y terms, you have my hearty approval to date two dudes at once. Anyone who’s ever been to a dueling-banjos night will tell you when it comes to teeth, four is all you really need. The same logic applies to casual dating, and here’s why: Click here to continue reading this post on Red Eye Chicago.

In fact, it’s practically a rite of passage these days, especially if you’re a U.

Don’t suggest serious stuff The reverse is true, too.

It may seem like a good idea to take him as your date to your best friend’s wedding, or bring him along for a weekend visit to your parent’s town, but these things say to him “she wants me to be an integral part of her life.” Sorry but, grab a male friend to be your date to the wedding, and visit the parents solo, as boring as it may be.

I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?

I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.However, this is not something I have ever done before and I am having a hard time with the idea of juggling.So now I find myself dating and hooking up with two men simultaneously.This is the first time I’ve done this, and I feel like it’s a bit awkward. Do I need to tell the guy I’ve been seeing longer about this new man? You double dip, but decide you like the first guy better, so you tell the second guy you’re sick, only he decides to be sweet and bring you soup just as the first guy is kissing you goodnight!So it’s no coincidence if it seems that you’re either going through a dry spell at certain times, or conversely that you find yourself having to choose between multiple men. Don’t say no to a date with one guy who you hit it off with just because things are going well with someone else.

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